17 year old son getting blow*job from girl "friend" in my home, appropriate? Last evening my 17 year old son had his girl "friend" over to hang out for a few hours. They always leave the door to the bonus room open as a rule, and when I came up to talk to them about something I walked in on her giving him a blow*job!! At first I didn't realize what was happening because they are "just friends" and I thought they were just goofing off. So I just blew it off and joked around about it a bit because my son still had his shorts on. THen he told me later when I asked if they really were doing that? Now, as I dwell on it I feel a little out of my league on this. She a nice girl if a bit ditzy, and I really didn't expect this from her. Where should I go with this? What should I say to my son? What new rules should be imposed if any? What's a mom to do? |
| You may just want to leave this alone if the girl is 17 or older. If she is not, you should inform your son of the consent laws in your state, and that he may be violating them and could end up in bad trouble. Other than that, if you feel you do not want your son behaving like this in your house with his girlfriend, you need to lay down the rules for him. |
Palpitations in my throat after ******** and the first time i have sex? palpitations in my throat after ******** and the first time i have sex?
- i did sex yesterday and this morning for first time ...
i dont know if i got this cause i gave a ********...
and i think i am nervous that i might gotten an STD that my heartbeats go fast and thats why i feel it in my throat .. but idk ...
or u think i got an STD and if so which one? i have no redness, no weird spots or bumbs,no pain, and my throat feels kinds warm ....
we wear condom for everything else but not for ********(s)
i am 17 and him he is 19 but he has gotten in bed with 3 people = 2 guys and a girl but he always condom but NOT for ********(s)...
also i have no allergies .... |
Dear Worried:
Congratulations on Having Sex with First-Time! After a wonderful experience, here comes the fear.
If you listen to the doctors about STD testing, then you might find yourself freaking out for the next three months.However, you're in luck.
Please Calm down. No STD will kill you by today. You have years to come. So relax.
Palpitations in your throat means that your heart is beating. Your hormone is racing after sex, don't worry about it. You have no STDs, and you should avoid having sex with a person that sleeps around. If you value your life and your sanity.
Please get tested before going to bed with anyone other than yourself. A blood donation to the blood bank and blood testing for herpes viruses ordered from your general Dr. will help you resolve your concerns over sexual transmitted diseases. That's the safest way to do it (and the cheapest). Sex ed never taught you that.
just live your life normally then you should be fine. Avoid sharing food or towels with anyone else. |
********/Hand job first time advice? Hay guys,
I've been with a girl for the past two years and now I'm with this guy and at a total loss. I just need the basics, not a million tips so help me out please,
Thanks, Rach x |
| Blow is definitely better than hand. |
No sex but ******** on the first date, YES OR NO? you met the girl three weeks ago... was asking her out for dinner, drinks, movies..but happened the second met was another big night out...she was staying in hotel, and you stayed with her..she has period, so no sex...but she gave you a ********...both of you aware the mentioned should take it slow..
does this ruin the relationship chance...?? w
what would you think of the girl after that night? |
| nothing she did you a favor |
******** for the first time? I gave my boyfriend a ******* last night for the first time. I'm pretty sure he came because my mouth was kinda gross feeling with some thick substance. Can i get anything in my mouth by doing this? Sick or anything? He's never done anything with a girl..so it's our first time for everything with each other. HELPPPP!! |
If your boyfriend had a sexually transmitted disease, there is a chance you could get it from him if he semen contacts you. (It sounds like that's what happened.) But if he is disease-free, he can't give you anything. You can't infect another person unless you are infected yourself.
Since you were his first, then you are almost certainly safe. As long as the two of you are exclusive with each other, then you will be okay. |
How to give a **** job for first time!? hello!
can you send me videos or sites of how a girl can give a ******** to her boyfriend???
any information about giving ******** for first time would be appreciated! |
| Your computer can seek out porn videos as well as mine... |
Do most girls fail to make the guy finish their first time...? I'm very innocent as far as sexual things go, but my boyfriend and I are very serious and, because we want to wait to have sex until marriage, he taught me how to perform a ******** for the first time. I tried my best, but I couldnt make him do his thing. It was super embarrasing that I just sent him to the bathroom so he wouldn't be in pain all night. Is it normal for a fail the first time as a girl, or will we always have intimate problems as a couple? |
I wouldn't say it's common, because it's pretty easy for guys to come. But, I wouldn't worry too much about it. You're new at it, and you'll get better. You won't always have problems. You'll be a pro after some practice.
Good luck. |
(Girls) how old were you when you first gave oral? Today my friend told me that she gave a ******** to her boyfriend. She said that afterwords she felt kind of like a whore for doing that. I told her that she doesnt have to feel that bad becuase most girls make mistakes with guys and regret it, but remember this feeling and make sure that you don't do it again. Learn from your mistakes. She told me thats good advice but she thinks she'll do it again becuase she liked it. I said dont you think were too young for that anyway? and she said "no as long as you know that you really love that person"
I dont know whats wrong with her, she's only 14 and her and her boyfriend have been going out for only 2 months. I think its crazy that she wants to do this but i dont know what to tell her. I mean I cant control her life but dont you think that she's way to young to give a ********? I dont know what to say to her though. So how old were you when you first gave oral/ a ********? if u havnt given one yet then what age do you think is appropriate? |
| I think your friend is a whore, but can i have her number? |
Why is sex wrong but a ******** okay? I'm really confused. My boyfriend and I were fooling around a few days ago and I ended up giving him a hand job. We both felt guilty and regretted it afterwards, but then the guilt just went away and now we're fine with that happened. I want to give him a BJ, and he likes the idea...but I don't know. We had both previously planned to keep sex until marriage, but where we are now is definetly passed where are our boundaries has been. What makes a ******** fine but sex not okay? I know that sex means you can get pregnant, so there is that risk, but is that the only reason why sex is so much worse than anything in that "gray zone"? I really want to give him a BJ, but I keep changing my mind back and forth over whether or not we should do this. I mean, it sounds really fun and exciting and I'd love to be with him on that level. We've recently started a relationship though we used to be best friends, and I trust him completely. But, I don't know if this is what I actually want, or just what my hormones want. I don't see either doing this or not doing this as a bad thing...I just...I don't know. What are your opinions?
Note: We're both graduating high school in the next three months. He's only the second guy I've dated, and I'm the first girl he's ever had a relationship with. |
| Cause the potential of a baby popping out is nada. |